Princess Banshee

So I guess your wondering why the title is Princess Banshee....well that is what we call are youngest. Alexis does not have a normal range. Everything has to be ear splitting. It probably would not be bad if it was not a day to day thing. She wants to be held...she wants Carson or Jenna to get off my lap(like it is her lap!) It hard enough to find the time to do the household chores with out her screaming and yelling and demanding me ALL DAY LONG!. Aside from having the run around with Carson, I have to make sure the princess has more of my attention the any other in the house....like today

Everything was going good aside no nap, Carson had to go for speech and OT. Well my husband was out doing something for his mom I had to take Alexis with me. Not a problem all was fine until we had to wait for Carson to be done (about and hour). She wants to play so we play, then all they sudden out of nowhere the tears are rolling. She wants up and down but cries when she up and cries she down nothing makes her happy. It is phyicaly and mentaly tiring....

....or the other day we where all enjoying the day outside. well it was time to go in for lunch and nap time, she wanted no part of it. I don't know what Im doing wrong...I don't give to her tantrums but it is hard on me to go through it all the time by myself.....it seems like when ever my husband has a day off he out doing what he wants and I'm still at home doing the samethnig over and over and over. I would love to beable to take on kids with me doing my running around live would be quieter!